What are Unbiological Siblings?
Someone who is not related to you biologically i.e. we don’t share a surname, parents, home, blood relation, etc but still has a purest and deep bond with us like our family member, he/she can be our best friend, cousin, colleague or sometimes a stranger.
We may have a couple of biological siblings but there’s no limitation to having unbiological siblings ❤️. We can share anything and everything with them without any second thoughts. There’s mutual trust, love & respect. They don’t judge us but accept and love us as we are. A relationship where we can stay the same as there aren’t any judgments or complaints, only truth and purity. They can read our faces and can be well aware of our moods just by seeing our texts thus understanding everything about us. It doesn’t matter whether we both live in the same city or the other, the bond is so special 💓 that even without frequent meetings they can understand us better than anyone. I must say it is one of the purest relations.
Before knowing this term, I used to call them a friend. But they are more than just a friend, they are family & thus they are our Unbiological siblings.
I have many Unbiological siblings. Do you wanna know how did I find one? / How do you get to know whether someone is your Unbiological sibling?
1. We feel comfortable and safe with them. Their vibes are so pure and rare that we don’t feel wrong or negative about them or ourselves when they are around.
2. We talk with multiple people but our real conversations are only with that one right person with whom we can talk for hours without being judged or bored.
3. They listen & understand us most of the time and give suitable advice selflessly. Nothing about our mood or behavior offends them.
4. We love to hang out frequently and spend more time with them. Their company seems to be perfect and comfortable.
5. They are caring, and loving and are always ready to stand by our side whenever needed.
They are our family without any blood relations.
6. They trust us even when we doubt ourselves. Our flaws, dark secrets, past, mistakes, wrong decisions, etc nothing changes their perception of us, they never judge us. Instead always value and accept us as we are.
7. They are true gems. Even our parents trust them with our safety and comfort and equally love and respect them as their own. Thus, they become a vital part of us and our family.
8. As every relationship has ups and downs, we have the same with our Unbiological siblings too. But no amount of anger, misunderstandings, or conflicts can break this relationship. Everything gets sorted eventually.
“तेरी मेरी बनती नहीं, तेरे बिना मेरी चलती नहीं”
If you share such a relationship with someone, then they can be considered your Unbiological siblings.
Our Unbiological Siblings are always ready to hear us out though we talk about senseless stuff. Even when we cry over things or behave inappropriately, they still chose to stay with us because they love us a lot and don’t want to cut off from us. They always check on us and stay connected via messages and calls and always make sure that we aren’t alone or stressed, thus someone who’s miles apart can understand and comfort us more than someone who’s sitting next to us.
“जरूरी नहीं जो पास है, वही ख़ास है |”
It doesn’t matter whether we meet regularly or at frequent intervals, they always live in our hearts. We feel the same bond every time we meet or talk because the bond is so special that it is not restricted or defined by anything except purity and truth. You may even call it a Low Maintenance relationship. As you need not do anything differently. Just be you.
Every relationship is two-way. Likewise, this relationship also works when both of them want to keep up with each other no matter what. Like every other relationship, this relationship is also based on trust, understanding, and love. This relationship won’t work when one of them doesn’t feel the same or doesn’t want to stay connected.
If we don’t accept each other as we are and always play blame games and hide the truth, hold grudges or try to change each other then the relationship won’t last. Just like any relationship, equal contributions from both sides are expected for overcoming obstacles and staying together for longer.
One of my Unbiological Siblings told me that Acceptance is the key to every relationship. If there’s compromise only from one side, then we may get irritated and the relationship won’t last at all. But when we consider acceptance, i.e. accept each other as much as we can or at least understand each other’s side without being judgemental then it will last longer and happier too. And we may even observe that our arguments turn into some constructive discussions and feedback and we develop the strength to fix things or at least accept them and move on. Because nobody is perfect and everyone’s definition of being perfect is different. So we should always go for someone right and not just someone who fits in our definition of being perfect.
Our unbiological siblings help us develop gratitude, love, and strength within. They help us grow in every phase of life. They teach us to climb higher but make sure to catch us when we fall. They turn our failures into lessons, mistakes into milestones, and help us stay happy and grateful in every situation. They are calm to our chaos. Everything makes sense when they are around. Though we don’t share surname, parents, home, childhood, etc but we never have a feeling of being unbiologically connected. It’s the purity and love that makes us one and not just being born to the same parents. You love them and live happily like a family.
The best part of having unbiological siblings is that you have an unbiological family too. Imagine being loved by two moms and dads and having fun with their family members, a small family joining together to be the big one. Picturing all this in mind is so soothing, pleasant, and fun. But trust me, living this picture is like a feast for the soul. They just beautify our life just by being there.
So do not let surnames, caste, religion, or region define your relationships. It’s a whole new world, so make explore more, make new connections, and push your boundaries, and you may find your unbiological siblings too.
Send this to your Unbiological Siblings and thanks to them for being there for you.
